Language of Love Workshop ~ Feb. 17th ~ 1:30 p.m. to 3:30 p.m.

RSVP ~ Direct Link at; https://sharedvisionnlp.as.me/LanguageofLoveNLPWorkshop

 

Sign Up;  Direct Link at; https://sharedvisionnlp.as.me/LanguageofLoveNLPWorkshop

NLP Meta Model Workshop ~ January 13th

Our Workshops are Experiential, we understand that although it is a contrived setting – you have to be able to try it out somewhere!  Come join in – keep posted for upcoming dates!

 

 

 

New Year, New You! Use NLP tools for your Best Communication in 2018 ~

Wishing everyone a happy holiday season!

Times are now busy, and the New Year will come soon!  As you may already know, our first workshop in 2018 is scheduled for Saturday, January 13th – it is a 2 hour workshop –  learning more about communication, NLP Meta-Model and the NLP Philosophy – all members are invited to attend –

To save $5 before January 1st – early sign-up/reservation – $25.00 includes all materials/workshop –

After the January 1st – sign up/reservation fee – $30.00 includes all materials/workshop

Direct RSVP Link;  https://sharedvisionnlp.as.me/?appointmentType=category:January+13%2C+2018+%7E+Communication+Workshop

One on One private sessions will resume in the New Year – feel free to call with any questions, (602) 367-6748, Stacey Lane

Learn more at; www.sharedvisionnlp.com

Like us on Facebook at; https://www.facebook.com/whatwouldyouchange/

Thank you all, and we’ll see you next year!  2018

Shared Vision NLP Team

Anchors Away Workshop ~ December 2017

The Shared Vision Team had 16 community members attend the workshop.  Attendees were all interested in learning to become a better communicator.  One of the most important ways to do that is by becoming an observer.

Changing State – Why?   First exercise, why – whether it be for another, to help the other person, change state, to become aware of their physiology, to become aware of our own.

Partners – A/B

A:  Share with your partner a time when you were upset, nothing too deep or personal – just upset, aggravated – didn’t mesh …  think it feel it, tell it – 4 or 5 minutes (that’s a long time) – engage with B – tell them sincerely –

B:  deeply listen, observe, physiology, voice tone, direction, stance, eye gaze –

90 angle – (other workshop we use predicates to determine speech patterns/sensory style – ) not today, listen, without analyzing – observe and deeply listen – validate, clarify, engage – yet observe

Whoever is ready can start – then, Flip/Flip/Visa Versa –

Make note of observations – think about what you saw, without analyzing or judgements –

Now same exercise with a Happy Story – exciting time – favorite story, fun-loving – A/B – note voice, physiology, stance – gestures –

Make note and share with partner what you saw –

Breaking State – contrived setting – however, it builds the awareness – and provides the opportunities and practice to implement later on …

A/B – another upsetting story, partner is telling, uncomfortable – (again, nothing too personal) and share honestly, you are entitled to your opinion –

Break State –

A break state is a sudden change in the context of speaking or movement that changes a person’s state quickly.

Breaking the state is important as it serves to leave one state behind and enter into a ‘neutral state.’ This helps to reduce or even stop the residue or contamination from one state to another – like a bridge.  People sometimes find it difficult going from one state to another, and this can act as a stepping stone, or a bridge that is neutral to both resetting –

For another person – looking for harmonious connection –   excuse me, that guy at the gas station – oh, I need to interject …

For yourself; One example would be to create a picture in your mind – a go to –

Redirect yourself, do as is, take a walk outside, put on your favorite music – fake it to you make it.

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Let’s play – Abbreviated version –

Your State and the World; Your ‘state’ is reflective of your emotional condition – mood, thoughts, feelings –

You can be more consciously aware of your ‘state’ – you are in control of it.  In a funk, move it around, your outcomes, how you experience the world is different – in a better state.  Have you ever been in a slump? Received an exciting phone call – and BAM, the world looks different?

Yes, sometimes we have joy, anger, happiness, sadness – but for the most part, we are somewhere in between – this is our ‘baseline state’ – how we see the world.

WANT CHANGE?  Remember a time when you were upset/unhappy – look at your posture, notice yourself – NOW WIPE THAT SCREEN – now remember a time happy/feel it – describe story.  Notice your physiology –

Change up physiology can do same –

Why is this important – changing from negative to positive will yield results – Changing another’s State – If a person is behaving negatively – Change State – Move from an intense state to a neutral state, allowing you/or another space to adopt to another state –

How? Ask them to stand up – point to something in the room, make them laugh, noise, distraction….

 

Setting Anchors – You are the Guide!

Anchors Away!

With NLP, “anchoring” refers to the process of the association of an internal response with some internal or external trigger so that the response may be quickly reaccessed.  This is a useful NLP for inducting a frame of mind or emotion – relaxation or happiness.  A desired emotion – you would like to recall –

A Resource Anchor is an anchor you can use to boost your confidence, motivate self or get some energy – great way to facilitate personal development and growth – gives you an “on’ switch.

Work with a partner – new partner, your story is now polished – remember a time when you were elated, happy – good thoughts – you won a competition, a first kiss – or some really good news – a clear, very happy moment.

Tell partner of the story of what happened leading up to it – be vivid, picture it – recall the feeling. Have partner hold left index and middle fingers in your right hand – and gently give their fingers two quick squeezes.  Ask them to make the picture of the happy moment larger, bring it closer to them, and imagine that feeling getting bigger more colorful, closer and multiplying in strength.  Squeeze fingers –

Describe again how you are feeling, what were you thinking at the time – squeeze fingers twice – the clearer you imagine the feeling – the better it works – repeat until you have the described and intensified five times in a row.

You have now laid an anchor – we can later recall this anchor by using the same double squeeze to recall a sense of happiness.

We do this, for conditioning, we are psychologically associated the neural signal of the two squeezes on my left fingers with happy!  Needs to be clear/thorough – known as conditioning.

 Resource Anchor – Next up – anchoring goes with the idea that “We already have the resources that we need” – The “resource” here is the memory of the time when you experienced the desired state.  One way is to step into a Circle of Excellence – this is one of the major presuppositions of NLP – that we have all the resources we need – with this we can gather powerful internal states in our unconscious – and call them up as needed – see how resourceful you already are!

Circle of Excellence –

Ready, Set, Go –

Use your imagination draw a circle on the ground in front of you – large one – chalk if needed. Within that circle imagine every good thing about yourself, every time you had success, your strengths, positive statements – what colors go with that – sounds, feelings as you put them in the circle you observe from the outside. Now, physically step inside your circle.  Take a breath and feel all that positive energy – see all the positive colors in your minds eye – – close your eyes and enjoy.

When finished – put in your back pocket and carry that circle with you – its yours!

 

 

Anchors Away!

Anchors Away!

With NLP, “anchoring” refers to the process of the association of an internal response with some internal or external trigger so that the response may be quickly reaccessed.  This is a useful NLP for inducting a frame of mind or emotion – relaxation or happiness.  A desired emotion – you would like to recall –

A Resource Anchor is an anchor you can use to boost your confidence, motivate self or get some energy – great way to facilitate personal development and growth – gives you an “on’ switch.

Work with a partner – remember a time when you were elated, happy – good thoughts – you won a competition, a first kiss – or some really good news – a clear, very happy moment.

Tell partner of the story of what happened leading up to it – be vivid, picture it – recall the feeling. Have partner hold left index and middle fingers in your right hand – and gently give their fingers two quick squeezes.  Ask them to make the picture of the happy moment larger, bring it closer to them, and imagine that feeling getting bigger more colorful, closer and multiplying in strength.  Squeeze fingers –

Describe again how you are feeling, what were you thinking at the time – squeeze fingers twice – the clearer you imagine the feeling – the better it works – repeat until you have the described and intensified five times in a row.

You have now laid an anchor – we can later recall this anchor by using the same double squeeze to recall a sense of happiness.

We do this, for conditioning, we are psychologically associated the neural signal of the two squeezes on my left fingers with happy!  Needs to be clear/thorough – known as conditioning.

 

 

Resource Anchor – Next up – anchoring goes with the idea that “We already have the resources that we need” – The “resource” here is the memory of the time when you experienced the desired state.  One way is to step into a Circle of Excellence – this is one of the major presuppositions of NLP – that we have all the resources we need – with this we can gather powerful internal states in our unconscious – and call them up as needed – see how resourceful you already are!

Ready, Set, Go –

Use your imagination draw a circle on the ground in front of you – large one – chalk if needed. Within that circle imagine every good thing about yourself, every time you had success, your strengths, positive statements – what colors go with that – sounds, feelings as you put them in the circle you observe from the outside. Now, physically step inside your circle.  Take a breath and feel all that positive energy – see all the positive colors in your minds eye – – close your eyes and enjoy.

When finished – put in your back pocket and carry that circle with you ….

 

 

Neuro Linguistic Programming Workshop ~ December 2nd

Layout for our next workshop on December 2nd, 2017?

When:  Saturday, December 2nd – 1:30 to 3 p.m.

Where:  Uptown Suites, 9301 Indian School Road – NE

How:  RSVP to Stacey Lane, Reserve online at this website; under appointments,

or at the Meetup at; https://www.meetup.com/Brain-Buzz-Workshops/ 

Donations are appreciated to maintain sustainability –

Suggested donation; $20 to $30 – RSVP and/or questions directly to Stacey Lane at (602) 367-6748

~ Introductions, Identify Sensory Styles ~ Representational Systems carry different words ~

Listen, and Playback with building rapport –

Let’s play –

Your State and the World; Your ‘state’ is reflective of your emotional condition – mood, thoughts, feelings –

You can be more consciously aware of your ‘state’ – you are in control of it.  In a funk, move it around, your outcomes, how you experience the world is different – in a better state.  Have you ever been in a slump? Received an exciting phone call – and BAM, the world looks different?

Yes, sometimes we have joy, anger, happiness, sadness – but for the most part, we are somewhere in between – this is our ‘baseline state’ – how we see the world.

WANT CHANGE?  Remember a time when you were upset/unhappy – look at your posture, notice yourself – NOW WIPE THAT SCREEN – now remember a time happy/feel it – describe story.  Notice your physiology –

Change up physiology can do same –

Why is this important – changing from negative to positive will yield results – Changing another’s State – If a person is behaving negatively – Change State – Move from an intense state to a neutral state, allowing you/or another space to adopt to another state –

How? Ask them to stand up – point to something in the room, make them laugh, noise, distraction….

We will also learn about building rapport; 90 degree angle – Matching with them, not mimicry – putting them at ease,

voice, rhythm, posture – eye contact …. Listen, without judgement, analyzing, predicting, listen with understanding and empathy –

Why?  People want to be heard.  Playback/representational style, posture, eye contact – verbiage.

Clarify, validate –

Creating Outcomes; Consistent High Achievers are outcome focused –

Exercises for Creating Outcomes – Practice and Believe –

Harmony with others – harmony with yourself –

Wrap up with Eye Accessing Cues –

A brief review;  Introduction to NLP

Introduction/Meaning of NLP – Neuro linguistic programming – addresses three factors involved in the human xperience; Neurology, Language and Programming.

Neuro – Nervous System – which we gather and process information through our five senses –

Sight – Visual, Hearing – Auditory, Touch – Kinesthetic, Smell – Olfactory, and Taste – Gustatory

Linguistic – Language is a filter of our understanding – we assign our information to a mental map – there are six things we can do inside our minds – we can create and recall –

Pictures, Sounds, Feelings, Tastes, Smells, Words (self-talk)

Programming – our known patterns, including our behaviors and habits – can be a detriment or advantage – good news, everything that can be learned, can be unlearned.

History of NLP

Neuro linguistic programming (NLP) was founded in the early 1970s by a psychology student – Richard Bandler, and John Grander, an Assistant Professor of Linguistics at the University of California – they studied three therapists of that time – these excellent achievers – Hypnotherapist, Milton Erickson – Virginia Satir, pioneer of Family Therapy and Fritz Perls, who later discovered Gestalt Therapy.

Philosophy of NLP – The Presuppositions of NLP 

NLP presuppositions

  1. Communication is redundant. You are always communicating in all three representational systems.
  2. The meaning of your communication is the response you get(regardless of your intention).
  3. People respond to their own maps of reality, not reality itself.
  4. Requisite variety: the element in any system with the greatest flexibility will be the controlling element.
  5. People work perfectly. No one is wrong or broken.
  6. Choice is better than no choice.
  7. People always make the best choice available to them at the time.
  8. Every behavior is useful in some context.
  9. Behind every behavior is a positive intention.
  10. Anyone can do anything. If one person can do something, it is possible to model it and teach it to someone else.
  11. Mind and body are one single system.
  12. People already have all the resources they need. What they need is to be able to access those resources at appropriate times and places.
  13. There is no such thing as failure, only feedback. Anything that is worth doing well is worth doing badly at first.
  14. Chunking down. Anything can be accomplished by anyone if you break down the task into small enough chunks.

Building Rapport Exercises – Identifying Speech Sensory Styles

Wrap up with some Eye Accessing Cues ~ 

Upcoming Workshop ~ December 2nd, Uptown Suites, 1:30 p.m. to 3 p.m.

Knowledge is Power ~ Communication is Key 

Our next Workshop is scheduled for December 2nd, at Uptown Suites, located at 9301 Indian School Road, NE and will be held from 1:30 to 3 p.m.

Please RSVP as space is limited – on Brain Buzz Workshops; https://www.meetup.com/Brain-Buzz-Workshops/ 

Donations are appreciated; all materials supplied.

Suggested donation $20 to $30 dollars to maintain sustainability ~

​Stacey Lane is there to promote and explore America’s leaps in character. As an educator she uses her NLP knowledge to guide students imagination to the limits, meanwhile traveling, writing and assisting others through their spiritual process- showing the neuro-pathways to excellence and re-framing steel-like confidence. She is excited about the rapid results NLP offers her clients and thrives in witnessing them blossom.  This untamed free spirit is a mother, grandmother, and friend to many willing players.

One-on-One Sessions are also available; you may schedule online or call directly at; (602) 367-6748

To learn more or to schedule visit; www.sharedvisionnlp.com 

Introductory NLP Workshop ~ 11/11/17 ~ Uptown Suites

Workshop; Introductions – Why are people here?

I am a certified Neuro Linguistic Programming Practitioner – Educator, a mother, and grandmother – working on my Masters Degree, to be completed this December 2017.  We have 15 participants in the Workshop ~ all here to learn about NLP and to become a better communicator.

Introduction/Meaning of NLP – Neuro linguistic programming – addresses three factors involved in the human experience; Neurology, Language and Programming.

Neuro – Nervous System – which we gather and process information through our five senses –

Sight – Visual, Hearing – Auditory, Touch – Kinesthetic, Smell – Olfactory, and Taste – Gustatory

Linguistic – Language is a filter of our understanding – we assign our information to a mental map – there are six things we can do inside our minds – we can create and recall –

Pictures, Sounds, Feelings, Tastes, Smells, Words (self-talk)

Programming – our known patterns, including our behaviors and habits – can be a detriment or advantage – good news, everything that can be learned, can be unlearned.

History of NLP

Neuro linguistic programming (NLP) was founded in the early 1970s by a psychology student – Richard Bandler, and John Grander, an Assistant Professor of Linguistics at the University of California – they studied three therapists of that time – these excellent achievers – Hypnotherapist, Milton Erickson – Virginia Satir, pioneer of Family Therapy and Fritz Perls, who later discovered Gestalt Therapy.

Philosophy of NLP – The Presuppositions of NLP 

NLP presuppositions

  1. Communication is redundant. You are always communicating in all three representational systems.
  2. The meaning of your communication is the response you get (regardless of your intention).
  3. People respond to their own maps of reality, not reality itself.
  4. Requisite variety: the element in any system with the greatest flexibility will be the controlling element.
  5. People work perfectly. No one is wrong or broken.
  6. Choice is better than no choice.
  7. People always make the best choice available to them at the time.
  8. Every behavior is useful in some context.
  9. Behind every behavior is a positive intention.
  10. Anyone can do anything. If one person can do something, it is possible to model it and teach it to someone else.
  11. Mind and body are one single system.
  12. People already have all the resources they need. What they need is to be able to access those resources at appropriate times and places.
  13. There is no such thing as failure, only feedback. Anything that is worth doing well is worth doing badly at first.
  14. Chunking down. Anything can be accomplished by anyone if you break down the task into small enough chunks.

Building Rapport Exercises – Identifying Speech Sensory Styles

Wrap up with introduction to Eye Accessing Cues –

Prelude to next Workshop – December 2nd – 2017

 

 

 

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